What do you do when the people who spout righteousness, supporting women’s growth in their relationships and finding theirselves, and other victim bullshit are actually the ones perpetuating the bullshit. You know the type right? The victim in everyone of their relationships, the ones that keep picking assholes that aren’t any better than what left them from their previous fucked up relationship.
The person who has little boundaries and tries to assimilate their behavior with the next prizes ex that they’ll never actually grow to become because single white female bullshit is boring. If he wanted the ex-he wouldn’t have messed the relationship up in the first place so be real and different. We all know these assholes. But guess what?
You are a blip. A blip on the radar for those people who have moved forward and can see what you are doing. We know you are not the victim. So assimilate this thought- I shouldn’t be full of shit. I shouldn’t blame my behavior on other people. I am responsible for my own shit. I shouldn’t fuck with those people who are really the strong ones because they’re the real survivors.
Don’t be the person who can’t be single or on their own. Find out who you are before you start the next co-dependent or parasitic relationship. Find out who you really are…and if you’re not an asshole then change your actions and don’t be an asshole. They have books on how not to be an asshole.
But most importantly, if you are going to be an asshole, own it. Own your insecurities and own your agenda. That’s integrity and I respect that so much more. You can thank our friend Hook for teaching me that, and I’ll forever be grateful. I will accept you-but only if you don’t lie about your shit. Own it.
The world is full of phonies…don’t be that person. I’ll catch you every time. Every single time.
How’s that for feelings Ariel!
~WM~
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