Better yet, if you understand the question and are a male, you most likely are that guy. Next question, why do you need to walk with three legs? Stuck on the metaphor? It means that they/you use their penis almost as much as their legs to compensate…for fill in the ________.
I was asked if this was going to be in a blog…here ya go. No names though. You know what I’m going to say to you, but unfortunately, you’re not the only “three legged” man out there so you can still listen up!
Reasons to use the third leg as naturally as the first two legs…let’s break this down gently. It feels good, you’re compensating for something, you’re avoiding something, you are afraid of something. Hmmm lots of somethings.
In reality it doesn’t matter. You’re going to do it until you are done running, avoiding, compensating, or lying to yourself. I want to focus on the latter behavior. We all run from, avoid, and over compensate at times, which can be somewhat of a protective behavior. However, denial or lying to ourselves creates an alternate reality that people use the first three behaviors to make true.
Example-when you tell a lie, you have to tell other lies to cover up the first lie. When you are trying to hide from the lies you tell, you avoid accountability, you over compensate to distract from what’s really going on, in order to evade further suspicions you run away from the situations.
Is this the life you want to live? Is this your legacy, what you want your responsibilities to view you as or how to cope? Is this working for you? I’ve lived this life. Maybe not with an extra leg, but boy did I hide, run, avoid using sex to accomplish every one of these defense tactics. It was fun for like a minute. But bits of my soul were slowly chipped away.
Now I have the maturity and life experience to know what is really important and what really validates my worth. My little responsibilities-with every struggle they have and I can’t fix, but help them learn to work through it, not around it or to avoid it-they tell me it’s hard, it’s not fair, and I hate you-but through my love for them, they don’t quit trying.
My plea to all who use or have the urge to use the third leg to crutch an escape plan of any kind, you have different avenues and better outcomes available to you. You have to willfully CHOOSE to do something different and work through not around the shit show called life.
But as always, your Whiskey Momma will be here to smack some sense and whiskey into your soul.
With Love Always,
WM
Whiskey Momma 